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Do you have âloving criticsâ in your life?
Loving critics are people who love you, and also who are not afraid to tell you the truth about what they see in you, how you come across to others, and ...
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There is the leader who says she is great with relationships and has no problem getting along with anybody. The reality is that it is clear to anyone around her that she is constantly rubbing peopl...
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Successful companies, large and small, work to instill a culture of trust among their team. They know that it is very difficult to succeed when people do not trust each other because that results i...
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Are you a Lone Ranger?
I once worked for a person who liked to keep everything to himself. He only shared information when he was asked directly about something. Otherwise, he mostly kept to himse...
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My colleague Mike: âI actually donât know anyone personally who I believe has it in their character to sexually harass anyoneâI just canât see it!â
Me: âWell, I donât know any female who has not e...
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A client of mine was shocked.
He had recently received feedback that his direct reports felt like he âyelledâ at them, or âscoldedâ them.
âI donât yell at my teamâ, he said. âAnd I really donât s...
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Work can be fun. It can also be, wellâŚwork. Things can happen every day that interfere with accomplishing your goals. Some days feel like a boxing match where you keep getting punched with problems...
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Why do you do what you do? This is an important question for every single person for their work life.
Beyond most peopleâs need to support themselves or their familiesâwhy do we do what we do?
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Letâs chat about the phenomenon called âthrowing someone under the busâ.
This is not a pleasant topic, and Iâm sure none of you, dear readers, has ever done this.
However, it happens all the time, s...
I constantly marvel at how poorly people treat their family members.
These people, our spouses and our children, who we vow to cherish and who are our own flesh and blood, are sometimes treated worse...
Do you hate conflict? Do you hate confrontation? Do you get uncomfortable when conveying something the other person doesnât want to hear?
It isnât necessarily easy for anyone to be the bearer of bad ...
Many of the leaders I work with feel like all they do is talk to people all day. When I speak with their teams, they feel like they hardly ever see or hear from their boss.
What gives?
Are these peo...